Couples therapy · Prague 7 – Letná

Hearing each other again.

My name is Zdeněk Nový and I’m a couples therapist. In a safe and impartial space we’ll uncover together what stands between you — arguments, silence, lost trust. We’re not looking for someone to blame. We’re looking for a way to truly hear each other again.

  • 5-year accredited training (ČAPZT)
  • An impartial outside perspective
  • It’s fine if only one of you reaches out
  • from arguments to understanding

  • from silence to conversation

  • from distance to closeness

  • from mistrust to security

  • on the same side again

  • parenting as a team

What’s come between you could be named

You don’t have to be able to name it. The feeling that something is stuck between you is enough. Tap the topic closest to you to read how it can show up and how we work together.

  • Recurring arguments that go nowhere From going in circles to a conversation that leads somewhere short technique: Two minutes without interruption How we work together

    From going in circles to a conversation that leads somewhere

    Recurring arguments that go nowhere

    How it can show up

    The argument starts over the dishes and ten minutes later you’re dealing with the last five years. You know it by heart: who says what, who leaves the room, how it ends. Afterward you’re left with a knot in your stomach and nothing resolved.

    How we work together

    First we find the moment when the conversation turns into a fight. Usually it’s the second when one of you stops being heard. We learn to speak for ourselves instead of against the other, and to recognize when the nervous system is so worked up that there’s no point continuing. Through the body you catch the warning signs before they take over.

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    Two minutes without interruption

    Set a timer for two minutes. One of you talks about what’s troubling them, the other just listens: no comments, no corrections. Then the listener sums up in their own words what they heard and asks: “Did I get that right?” Then you switch. You respond to the content only once you’ve both finished.

    Couples therapy · 70 min
    In person in Letná or online, in Czech or English

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  • Silence and avoiding important topics From tiptoeing around it to what’s really going on How we work together

    From tiptoeing around it to what’s really going on

    Silence and avoiding important topics

    How it can show up

    The household runs, but some topics are minefields. Better not to bring it up and start another fight. Politeness instead of closeness. Sometimes it’s easier not to talk at all than to start and not see it through.

    How we work together

    Silence is usually protection, not indifference. We look at what each of you is afraid of if you said it out loud, and where you learned to swallow things. In the therapy room that conversation is safer: there’s a third person making sure it doesn’t end the way it always does.

    Couples therapy · 70 min
    In person in Letná or online, in Czech or English

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  • Infidelity, lies and lost trust From suspicion to certainty, however it turns out How we work together

    From suspicion to certainty, however it turns out

    Infidelity, lies and lost trust

    How it can show up

    Something has cracked, or it’s hanging in the air. Checking the phone, piecing together timelines, questions you’re afraid to know the answer to. One of you wants to talk all the time, the other doesn’t want to hear about it anymore.

    How we work together

    First, stabilization: in the first weeks after a disclosure you’re both in shock, and conversations at home often bring more hurt. Then, gradually: what really happened, what it meant and what was missing in the relationship. The hurt partner needs truthful answers; the other needs room to speak without remaining the guilty one forever. I never push toward forgiveness.

    If you’re in the first days after a disclosure, save this exercise until after the first session. A fresh wound won’t settle on its own at home, and a badly handled conversation can hurt more than silence.

    Couples therapy · 70 min
    In person in Letná or online, in Czech or English

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  • Feeling that you’ve drifted apart From roommates back to closeness short technique: Six seconds How we work together

    From roommates back to closeness

    Feeling that you’ve drifted apart

    How it can show up

    You don’t fight. You just live side by side. Evenings on two separate screens, conversations about logistics, touch only to say hello. You remember it used to be different, and you don’t know exactly when it changed.

    How we work together

    Drifting apart comes slowly and it’s nobody’s fault. The years add up, and there was always something more urgent. We look for where the connection broke and what keeps it broken now. We also work with the body, because closeness can’t be negotiated by reason alone.

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    Six seconds

    When you meet today, hug each other and silently count to six. Unusually long — that’s exactly the point. The body brushes off a shorter hug as a formality; after about six seconds it starts to relax. Notice what’s happening inside you. You don’t have to comment on it.

    Couples therapy · 70 min
    In person in Letná or online, in Czech or English

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  • Different needs in intimacy and sexuality From quiet tension to open conversation How we work together

    From quiet tension to open conversation

    Different needs in intimacy and sexuality

    How it can show up

    One of you would like it more often, the other feels pressure. Rejection hurts, initiative fades and gradually you stop even talking about it. It becomes a topic where you both feel bad and no one knows how to open it.

    How we work together

    Different levels of desire aren’t a disorder; it’s a common situation. The trouble usually comes only when it can’t be talked about. We look at what intimacy means for each of you and what comes before it: for some, closeness grows from touch, for others only once they feel heard. You set the pace, and it’s never about performance.

    If there’s pain, a health issue or an experience that’s hard to talk about behind the different needs, feel free to write to me in advance. We don’t open a topic like that without preparation.

    Couples therapy · 70 min
    In person in Letná or online, in Czech or English

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  • Different ideas about a shared future From a stalemate to a real decision How we work together

    From a stalemate to a real decision

    Different ideas about a shared future

    How it can show up

    Children, moving, working abroad, a wedding, money. One wants it, the other doesn’t, and the decision has been put off for a long time. The conversation ends the same way every time, and meanwhile time is passing.

    How we work together

    Behind different plans there are usually unspoken needs and fears, often brought from the families you grew up in. Once they’re named, there usually turns out to be more room for a solution than it seemed. I don’t decide for you and I don’t push you toward agreement. I help you understand each other before you decide.

    Couples therapy · 70 min
    In person in Letná or online, in Czech or English

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  • A major life change: a child, a move, a loss From just surviving the change to getting through it together How we work together

    From just surviving the change to getting through it together

    A major life change: a child, a move, a loss

    How it can show up

    A child was born, someone close died, you moved, one of you fell ill or lost a job. A relationship that used to work suddenly can’t keep up. Each of you copes differently, and that alone creates tension.

    How we work together

    A different pace of grieving or adjusting isn’t indifference, even though it’s often read that way. We map what each of you needs right now and where you draw strength. A lot of it is also about practically sharing the load, so the relationship doesn’t turn into pure logistics. With a loss, we give room to the grief itself, not just its consequences.

    Couples therapy · 70 min
    In person in Letná or online, in Czech or English

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  • Parenting as a source of tension From two camps to one team How we work together

    From two camps to one team

    Parenting as a source of tension

    How it can show up

    One gives in, the other holds the line. Arguments in front of the kids, undermined authority, the feeling that one of you has been left alone with it. Children sense the gap and go to the other parent for a “yes.”

    How we work together

    Disagreements about parenting are rarely just about parenting. Mostly they’re about how things were done in the families each of you comes from. Once we make that visible, it stops being a contest over who’s right. We look for a few agreements you can both truly live with, instead of a long list of rules that won’t last anyway.

    Couples therapy · 70 min
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  • Deciding whether to stay in the relationship From endless deliberation to clarity How we work together

    From endless deliberation to clarity

    Deciding whether to stay in the relationship

    How it can show up

    For months, maybe years, you’ve been going back and forth between leaving and staying. One of you may already have decided, the other not. It exhausts you both more than the problem itself.

    How we work together

    I’m not here to keep you together at any cost, nor to recommend a breakup. The point is for you to decide from understanding, not from exhaustion. Sometimes it turns out there’s something worth staying for. Other times it ends in a separation, but a calmer and clearer one — which children, if you have them, appreciate most of all.

    If there is physical violence, threats or fear of your partner in the relationship, joint sessions are not a safe path and can make the situation worse. Write to me and I’ll recommend more suitable help, or call the Czech helpline for victims of crime and domestic violence at 116 006 (24/7, free).

    Couples therapy · 70 min
    In person in Letná or online, in Czech or English

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What a session can look like

Three common situations. I don’t explain theory to you – I slow the conversation down right where it breaks down and help you hear what the other person is really saying.

Communication

“You’re late again.”

He takes a breath to defend himself. At that moment I pause the conversation and ask him what’s happening in his body right now. “My stomach tightened.” I ask her what she actually wanted to tell him. “I was waiting for you and I felt sad.” A conversation that would have ended in a fight within a minute carries on.

what helps: slowing down and mirroring

Trust

“Why didn’t you tell me right away?”

After months of silence she finally asks. He doesn’t answer with a defense. He speaks slowly, with pauses we make room for together, and she observes whether his words match how he looks as he says them. For the first time she feels the answer is honest, not just convenient.

what helps: acknowledgment before explanation

Closeness

Three minutes without words

They sit facing each other. Their only task is to look at each other and breathe. For the first minute they both laugh and look away. In the third minute their breathing starts to fall into sync on its own. Then he says: “I can’t remember the last time we were this close without having to sort something out.”

what helps: breathing together

I don’t decide which of you is right.I don’t take either side. I’m on the side of your relationship – and make sure both of you get space. All body-based exercises are an offer, not an obligation.

What to expect at the first session

No surprises. 70 minutes, in person in Letná or online.

We get to know each other

I’ll explain how I work and how confidentiality applies. You can ask anything.

I’ll listen to both of you

Each of you tells me, from your own perspective, what brings you here. I make sure both of you get space.

We find out whether we’re a good fit

If so, we arrange further sessions – roughly the first five once a week, then less often. After a few sessions we review together whether they’re helping.

What I won’t ask of you

  • I don’t decide who’s right, and I don’t take either side.
  • You don’t have to say anything you’re not ready for yet.
  • You don’t have to commit to further sessions right away.

When only one of you wants to come

Just one of you can send the first message. But couples therapy always starts with a joint session with both partners. If your partner doesn’t want to come yet, you can start individual therapy with me. In that case, though, we won’t do couples therapy together later. This is for both your sakes: in couples therapy it matters that I’m equally close to each of you.

Who you’ll be working with

First, see whether I feel right for you.

You don’t choose a therapist by diplomas, but by trust — and with a couple it has to grow in both of you. That’s why what you’ll mostly find here is me: in a short video I say who I am, what a joint session looks like and what to expect.

I go beneath the surface: it’s not only about how you argue, but why – often patterns from the families you each grew up in are at play. I combine talking with body-based work. I completed a five-year accredited training under the Czech Association for Body-Oriented Psychotherapy.

5 years

accredited training

70 min

session length

once a week

roughly the first 5 sessions

What it costs and how it works

Zdeněk Nový, psychotherapist

I know cost matters when you’re deciding — and as a couple, there are two of you deciding. That’s why it’s right here, so you can think it over at home, not in my therapy room.

— Zdeněk Nový

2 500CZK / joint session 70 minutes

  • In person in Prague 7 – Letná, or online
  • Roughly the first 5 sessions once a week, then as needed
  • Payment by bank transfer or in cash

Cancellations: a session can be canceled or rescheduled free of charge up to 72 hours in advance. After that it is charged in full — I can no longer offer the slot to anyone else.

What couples ask before they get in touch

It’s okay to ask. And feel free to ask anything else straight away — even in your first message.

Zdeněk Nový

“I don’t take either side. I’m on the side of your relationship.”

What happens next

  • I’ll reply within two business days and suggest a time.
  • The appointment is confirmed once the bank transfer for the first session arrives.
  • You both come. We get to know each other and each of you says what brings you. Whether we continue is something you decide afterwards.

In Czech or English, in person in Letná or online.

Let’s arrange a first session.

A few words are enough – and it’s fine if just one of you sends them.

    Everything you write is confidential.

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